Posts

Unmanageability

Literally everything I know about relationships

Decisions and divination

Workaday

Fizz and bubble

Uniform

Step Two made easy

Step One: a shocking prospect

The simple ethic of service

The entry-level Al-Anon trap

Step One from the outside

Relationship trouble

Considerations for the f*#&ed

You don't want to get your marbles back!

Get on with it

The relationship between the spiritual malady and alcoholism

Advice [edited]

Step Four: twenty-one questions

A mini-Step One crib-sheet

Volunteering tips (especially for us Al-Anons)

Stop It!

All-out war

It

Boom bang-a-bang

Support and rockbottoms

Healthy and unhealthy relationships

Work, love, play

Whaling and wailing

Where people get stuck

Amends and exes

Is forgiveness part of the Steps?

Forgiveness in the 12 x 12

Bang bang

Fingers pointing back

Spiritual leprosy, spiritual bypass, and id monster

Achieving peace

The little puffing ego machine

Fear and peace

Multiple realities

Rudeness

Pity

Spiritual canteen

But I have no amends to make!

Broad, roomy, all-inclusive

Step Eleven. Why bother?

How to get stuff done with Concept III

Asking questions of a sponsor or other advisor

How to be helped

Taking the Steps many times

Karpman Drama Triangle writ large