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How I used the 'Big Book' to recover: some personal experiences and views of one individual. This is not an official twelve-step fellowship website. I do not speak for any twelve-step fellowship. The material is shared for fun and for free. If it helps, great! If it doesn't, don't worry about it! My programme is a perpetual beta, so it changes with my experience. If you're on the mobile app, click the hamburger (≡) in the top right for pages and links.

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Outsourced thinking

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How to say 'no'

on April 28, 2022

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What's a white whale?

on April 28, 2022

Second surrender

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Why does AA hang together?

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The programme as the ends not the means

on April 28, 2022

Morality Psychological aspect Surrender

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Sometimes angry people say really good things

on April 28, 2022

First Things First Newcomers Relationships Thirteenth Step

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Unmanageability

on April 28, 2022

Unmanageability

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Do I need Al-Anon?

on April 27, 2022

Al-Anon Codependency

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Good grief

on April 27, 2022

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I hate my sponsor!

on April 27, 2022

Sacred cows Second surrender Sponsorship

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Boundaries & follow-through

on April 27, 2022

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'It's not about how long you've been sober'

on April 27, 2022

Experience Knowledge

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Set-aside prayer

on April 27, 2022

Open-mindedness Prayer

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Inside or out?

on April 27, 2022

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Dealing with jerks

on April 27, 2022

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Retreading Step One

on April 26, 2022

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Time, gentlemen, please

on April 26, 2022

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Al-Anon slips

on April 26, 2022

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Abrogation of responsibility by labelling

on April 24, 2022

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Symptoms of being spiritual unfit

on April 24, 2022

Spiritual malady

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Conflicted

on April 21, 2022

Conflict Resistance

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Prayer

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Something to practise

on April 21, 2022

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Unwelcome news

on April 21, 2022

Reworking the Twelve Steps Step Twelve (carrying the message)

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Stuck for corrective measures?

on April 21, 2022

Corrective measures

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Inventory and language

on April 20, 2022

Fear inventory Language Resentment Inventory Step Four

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If it's after 9.00 p.m at night ...

on April 20, 2022

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Cookie monster

on April 20, 2022

Ego

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Code and jargon (updated 20-04-2022)

on April 19, 2022

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Manipulating group conscience meetings

on April 18, 2022

Group conscience Newcomers Tradition I

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Pot of ointment

on April 17, 2022

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Blindness

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What is relapse?

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Dealing with anger

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Muck-spreader

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Resentment requires expectation plus attachment

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'Anger's OK; it's resentment that's the problem'

on April 16, 2022

Anger Resentment

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Ambition

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There is no why

on April 15, 2022

God Step One There Is A Solution

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Good inventory

on April 14, 2022

Resentment Inventory Step Four

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Assets and liabilities

on April 14, 2022

Character defects Step Seven

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Circuses and surrender

on April 13, 2022

Sponsorship Surrender

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My first home group

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Group and meeting formats

on April 12, 2022

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God, yeah, I know, but ...

on April 11, 2022

God Inspiration Prayer

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But I haven't got time!

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PARTIKLE Physics

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Corrective measures Spiritual principles

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Mother Hen Inventory

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The Al-Anon fast

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Qualifiers and motivators

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Step Twelve IS the programme

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It's a gentle programme. Or is it?

on April 10, 2022

Al-Anon Kindness Truth

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