Respecting the group conscience

One meeting I go to, everyone stays silent before the meeting. Apparently the group conscience is that they like to sit quietly. So I sit quietly.

Another meeting I go to, everyone chitter-chatters. So I join in.

My personal preference is neither here nor there. My job is to fit in, not to force change.

The group conscience is not just what is decided at a group conscience meeting. It is what is.