“This thought brings us to Step Ten, which suggests we continue to take personal inventory and continue to set right any new mistakes as we go along.” (Page 84, Big Book)
If one has the misfortune to hit a poor creature when driving and send it to the next realm, one simply places it by the side of the road, and drives on. One does not take roadkill with one, strapping it into the passenger seat.
Just so with happenings.
Deal with them, then leave them behind.
Empty.