“They are the same weapons used by many spouses: indignation expressed in a strident voice; irresponsible accusations, nagging, tears and hysteria, self- righteousness and many more.” (ODAT, 17 January)
The above behaviours are predicated on the belief that I can effect change in their behaviour. I can’t.
The antidote: equanimity and non-interference. Once those are mastered, one is most of the way there.