“Knowledge was all-powerful. Intellect could conquer nature. Since we were brighter than most folks (so we thought), the spoils of victory would be ours for the thinking. The god of intellect displaced the God of our fathers. But again John Barleycorn had other ideas. We who had won so handsomely in a walk turned into all-time losers. We saw that we had to reconsider or die. We found many in A.A. who once thought as we did. They helped us to get down to our right size. By their example they showed us that humility and intellect could be compatible, provided we placed humility first. When we began to do that, we received the gift of faith, a faith which works. This faith is for you, too.” (Pages 29 to 30, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions)
“We realize that the word “dependence” is as distasteful to many psychiatrists and psychologists as it is to alcoholics. Like our professional friends, we, too, are aware that there are wrong forms of dependence. We have experienced many of them. No adult man or woman, for example, should be in too much emotional dependence upon a parent. They should have been weaned long before, and if they have not been, they should wake up to the fact. This very form of faulty dependence has caused many a rebellious alcoholic to conclude that dependence of any sort must be intolerably damaging. But dependence upon an A.A. group or upon a Higher Power hasn’t produced any baleful results.” (Page 38, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions)
My job is to think, not to act on impulse, emotion, or autopilot.
The thinking must be positioned in the context of spiritual principles: God first; self out of the picture.
I used to outsource questions to sponsors, etc., to do my thinking for me.
All this under the guise of: “what-a-good-boy-am-I, going to a sponsor rather than relying on self.”
This infancy must be abandoned.