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on October 12, 2025

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Six defects to watch out for, because they have a habit of recurring, like the sensation in déjà vu:

Four behavioural:

Defence

Explanation

Justification

Argument

Two attitudinal:

Victimhood

Umbrage

Labels: Character defects

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