“Before taking drastic action which might implicate other people we secure their consent. If we have obtained permission, have consulted with others, asked God to help and the drastic step is indicated we must not shrink.” (Page 80, Big Book)
“The right answer will come, if we want it. God alone can judge our sex situation. Counsel with persons is often desirable, but we let God be the final judge. We realize that some people are as fanatical about sex as others are loose. We avoid hysterical thinking or advice.” (Pages 69 to 70, Big Book)
“that all important decisions be reached by discussion, vote, and, whenever possible, by substantial unanimity” (Concept XII, Warranty IV)
To make a decision:
- Establish the right motives (surrender to God)
- Consider the situation carefully
- Obtain the consent of others, where necessary
- Consult with others
- Ask God for help, pray, meditate