“I’ll only be able to help others when I have allowed Al-Anon to clear up my own view of my problems.” (ODAT, 2 July 2025)
My problems are not problems. They’re situations.
Some I can do something about. That’s what I then do.
Some I can’t do anything about. These I reclassify as facts.
Some: I don’t know what to do. These are turned over to God. None of my business until then.