“Detaching our minds from the problem can truly promote our spiritual growth, and lessen the unrecognized personal guilt we carry around within us. It can lift the mind away from the partner’s doings.” (ODAT, 29 May)
I cannot repeat to myself enough that detachment is the
answer:
- Stop thinking about the problem
- Stop thinking about things that are none of my business
- Stop thinking about it, about them, about the past, about
the future
What is my business?
- My relationship with God
- The development of my character
- The clearing of the way
- The service of God
Nothing else exists; nothing else matters.