“In a re-inventory, I found I could no longer blame the alcoholic in my life for my soul sickness, my restlessness and my feeling of inadequacy.” (ODAT, 27 April)
Whoever I’m talking about, I’m blaming.
When I am in my right mind, I have far less to say, and what I have to say is not about them.
One might say that active Al-Anonism consists in thinking about, talking about, and interfering with them.