Sane and happy usefulness

“Moping melancholy mad” (A. E. Housman, Terence This is Stupid Stuff)

This describes my perma-state when I was newly sober. The madness took many forms including manic excitement.

“We have found nothing incompatible between a powerful spiritual experience and a life of sane and happy usefulness.” (Chapter 9, Big Book)

The opposites:

  • Rather than moping listlessly, I can get on with constructive action: Usefulness
  • Rather than dwelling on the sad or the gloomy, I can adopt a cheerful, optimistic disposition: Happiness
  • Rather than denying or fleeing reality, I can deal with it head on, and dial back the extremes: Sanity

... are three of the greatest gifts of the programme.