Goldilocks: the right temperature of the porridge

An entry-level task in AA is learning to follow instructions. Unfortunately, even though this is an entry-level task, it took me, I think, decades to learn it. I have fallen all too often for the ego’s temptation to make a task ‘my own’ by adjusting the brief, as the ego suggests I will be invisible if I do not personalise it.

Some examples:

  • Turning a reading in a meeting into an audition for the Royal Shakespeare Company
  • Changing pronouns or other words in readings to instruct others on what I think is ideologically correct
  • Reading the script without giving a running commentary on my experience of reading the script or what I think about the script
  • Finding my errors hilarious rather than embarrassing and turning myself into Bobo The Clown
  • Ad-libbing, adding things I think ought to be in the script, or removing things I think oughtn’t
  • Any other failure to perform the job as specified

One can go to the other extreme and, rather than going too far, fall too short.

Some examples:

  • Turning up late
  • Arriving so late I’m flustered so underperform
  • Not training myself on the task before doing it
  • Not garnering experience from previous incumbents
  • Not reading the script in advance to prevent stumbling
  • Not doing mental or actual walkthroughs to anticipate and solve difficulties

The aim is to do the job, no less, and no more.