To accept something presumes I know what I'm accepting.
But what if my story is not accurate in the first place? Then I'm going to all the trouble of accepting something that is not there.
Perception is interpretation. Interpretation is invariably subjective.
Better than acceptance: remove the subject, and bang goes the subjective interpretation.
I generally don't need to understand the situation I am in, at least not in full:
I'm called upon only to act in a God-reliant way.