- Keep my mouth largely shut
- Never criticise
- Issue no demands or ultimatums
- Never attempt to regulate or control
- Do not bring any negativity into the home
- Never blame my feelings on the other person
- Never interfere in the other person's personal domain
- Seek consensus for anything in the common domain
- Ask permission if my activities would interfere with his domain
- Yield: put him first
- Do it when you see it needs doing
- Leave him alone