Don't analyse: catalogue and disclose; catalogue and disclose; God will do the rest.
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Powerlessness over alcohol: the brake wires are cut; the steering wheel is locked; you're motoring along just fine right now, but eventually you'll come to a dead end, a turn, or a junction, and then you're dead. Step One is not about consequences; it's about recognition that one is locked into an invariably fatal pattern, with the timing of the fatality entirely outside your control: maybe in an hour; maybe in half a century.
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First Things First with work. Do not aim merely to make money, providing a good product or service only in as far as this is necessary to achieve this aim. Aim instead to do provide a good product or service, then charge accordingly. Put service to God through service to others first, and let money take care of itself.