Returnees

At a meeting I recently went to, there was a special welcome to returnees.

The production of this new word is interesting:

The employer is the person who employs another. The employee is the person thus employed.

This is a productive pattern in law: grantor and grantee, lessor and lessee.

It is used also in the pattern sponsor and sponsee.

Now, the term returnee is interesting because it implies the individual is a passive subject: the individual has not 'done the returning' but is 'that which has been returned'.

I once said to Doug, 'I have definitely given up alcohol.' He replied, 'Princess, you didn't give it up; it gave you up.'

If I drank again, providence would return me to AA: I would not be able to return myself.