It's become fashionable to say that life is being 'lifey'.
What people mean is: 'I find it hard to decide what to do and then to do it / I have negative emotional reactions, but all of these are life's fault, not mine.'
In truth, life is perfectly neutral.
By contrast, I am often incompetent and emotionally immature. Only if I recognise that the problem lies with me can something be done about it.