I aim to be a love addict. I aim to be patient, tolerant, kind, and loving, along with detached (because love requires detachment). I aim to act in others' best interests without compromising mine.
I don't aim to be angry, controlling, sacrificial of my Higher Self, entangled, enmeshed, and obsessed with fantasy (positive and negative) about others.
That wouldn't be love addiction. That would be specialness addiction, hate addiction, guilt addiction, shame addiction.
So, concerning real love addiction: sign me up!