To stay alive ...

I must stay sober.

To stay sober, I must not have the first drink.

To not have the first drink, God must be in charge.

If I'm in charge, I might drink.

Examples of being in charge:
- Resentment
- Harm to others
- Secrets
- Unmade amends
- Unpaid creditors
- Complacency
- Pursuing own goals

Examples of not being in charge:
- Withdrawal of judgement
- Helping not hurting
- Candour
- Amends
- Fulfilment of obligations
- Diligence
- Serving God