What are the facts?
- Who is involved?
- What is the background?
- What happened? / What am I frightened of?
- What are the demands I need to drop?
Pray: 'This person is as they are. How can I be helpful to them? God save me from being angry. Thy will be done.'
What were my mistakes?
Where was I selfish?
Where was I dishonest?
What was I after (self-seeking)?
What was I frightened of?
Where was I to blame?
Where was I at fault (pick the top three character defects)?
What were my wrongs (harms towards others)?
Forgive.
Share.
What corrective action should I take?