When I don't like where I am, I have navigated badly. That means I've got a terrible map or I don't know how to read it.
In my life, when I don't like where I am, it's the same.
I've got bad information: I think things are true that are not; I fail to spot things that are true; I see things wrong ...
... and I don't know how to read the information: my analysis and assessment of the situation are wrong.
If I persist in thinking I'm right, I'll never get to where I want to go. I have to recognise I'm wrong.
Cotton-wool-out-of-the-ears-and-into-the-mouth time!