In Step Ten, with God's help and under God's guidance, I change my thinking in real time by spotting when I'm talking and listening to the ego and switching to talking and listening to God.
In Step Eleven, with God's help and under God's guidance, I change my beliefs, knowledge, and understanding by praying, reading, listening, learning, meditating, and raising my consciousness to a higher level.
In Step Twelve, with God's help and under God's guidance, I change my behaviour: I do God's will not my ego's.
When my thinking, beliefs, knowledge, understanding, and behaviour change: so does my life.