Sometimes things are hard. That means that I do not have the skill to do them competently.
Most things I think are hard are not hard. They just involve enduring pain. Enduring pain is not hard. It's a question of willingness.
If I'm frightened of doing something because I don't know how to do it, I can ask someone.
If do know how to do it but I'm not doing it, the problem is a lack of willingness.
If that's the case, I ask God for the strength but take the initiative and take the responsibility myself.