A simple view of harm

Level 1: Immediate harm

Material, financial, physical, emotional harm
Taking people's time
Reputational harm
Intrusion (nuisance, interference, overstepping boundaries)

Level 2: Relationship harm

Damage to the relationship (e.g. a single argument causes immediate emotional harm but severs the relationship for five years)

Level 3: Spiritual harm

Increasing a sense of fear, guilt, and separation
Misleading people spiritually
Blocking growth through through care-taking or enabling
Failing to use opportunities to help others grow spiritually