Asking people to do things: is it controlling?
If the request is legitimate and the means are legitimate, then no.
Control is a defect where I am overstepping the bounds of what it is legitimate to request of others or to ask others to put up with, or where I overstep the bounds in terms of method (e.g. shouting or insinuating where a calm, plain request would suffice).
If the request is legitimate and the means are legitimate, then no.
Control is a defect where I am overstepping the bounds of what it is legitimate to request of others or to ask others to put up with, or where I overstep the bounds in terms of method (e.g. shouting or insinuating where a calm, plain request would suffice).