A good relationship
is where you spend time with someone being cheerful (113, 132, 133), useful (13,
43, 49, 76, 77, 86), and kind (83). You reduce expectations as far as possible
(118, 127)). You correct your faults, not theirs (98, 118). You do not monitor
their conduct (135). You are grateful for everything (119) and overlook
anything that is not to your taste (67, 98). Build for the long term (83, 123),
whilst keeping the mind present in the now. That’s where you’ll find the other
person, and that’s where you’ll find God (59).